NOTE* On the back of a three way switch is the word common
Replacing a 3-way Switch
Step 1
Locate the common wire- Turn off power and mark the main service panel. Remove the cover plate screws and cover plate.Test for power with a circuit tester or multimeter by placing one probe on the metal box or ground wire and touching the other probe to each screw the lamp light should not light. Locate the dark common screw terminal,and mark that wire with masking tape.
Step 2
Connect common wire on new switch-To make sure the new three-way swwitch gets wired properly,disconnect the common wire on the old switch and then immediately connect it to the common screw terminal on the new switch-it's most likely copper or black or will be labeled on the back of the switch as COMMON.
Step 3
Connect remaining wires-Now you can disconnect the remaining wires and hook them up to the new switch. Since these wires are interchangeable you can attach them to either of the remaining screw terminals. When you're done,gently push the excess wire and the switch back into the box,install the mounting screws and cover plate,restore the power.Test the switch for proper operation.